i nt opening celebration for my birthday anymore =(
initially mum say celebration dun mixed with relatives. so i set another date for them. relatives all not supportive. so sad. forget it. BUT furthermore, i told them is not my celebration. treat it as a gathering. and i paying hoi shing's condo for using facilities. and paying for all the food. end up they all so ya ya. this cannot, that cannot. dun wan this, dun wan that. cannot this date, cannot that date. sicked. upset. ma fan. for wad i wanna spend $$ to invite them to celebrate with me.
bf that side too.. hs's parents say wanna treat me dinner next week to celebrate chinese birthday. den i happy for awhile. tot they remember my prescence. BUT end up i realised i only subsitute. coz his both sisters nt in sg. went to hk. so the parents lonely, wanna find ppl to accompany them eat. accompany them drink tea. confirm when the sisters back, kick me to the side. i nt working. not much $$. but when his mum told me the bag i bought for her is torn, i immediately go buy another one for her. actually it is ok. but when i noe i am substitute. i felt that y i waste $$. sian.
for friends, haiz. 8899 ppl nvm de la. u all understand. plus PL birthday celebration is so near to mine. dun need to celebrate mine also ok. coz we will still meet one another.. only for poly friends, they expect me to treat them. coz their tradition is 21st must treat... will see how..
haiz.. =(
loner...
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5 comments:
hey jun..cheer up alright..=D hee we can celeb together..definitely we 8899 wil celeb together okie..
my bbq we can celeb together, u me n mf okie..=D
as for ur poly frenz there mayb u arrange a meetup in a restaurant to celeb w dem?
hmm ur relatives side there mayb dun celeb?coz i oso din invite my relatives n parents..they tink is bo liao..zzz =(
hmm as for HS's parents..dun tink tt way..mayb they reali wan celeb ur bday?u actually is a good gf..always acc dem n bought tings for dem..im sure they appreciate u..
stil got us!!u're not loner ya..dun sad le kkz..=D muackz we shall meet up soon okie..
hey ger.
i oso nv open any birthday celebration.i believe all of us will celebrate for u.we can hv a private celebration tt only involve 8899.anyway.u dun hv to really bother abt hs parents.as time goes by.i tink they will treat u as one of their family members.so cheer up. =)
LJ!
Cheer up!! You still have us and HS!!! All of us will definitely celebrate with you:)
Some older generation just dun like to attend such stuff.. so dun be sad cause of this!
See u soon! Take care:)
haha.. i think HS's parents got treat u like family la.. just that they older generation, don't know how to express their feelings to you... haha.. if his mom suddenly become like ang moh, hug n kiss you, also weird right? haha... don't think too much.. is just nice the sisters not around only...
ya.. and who says you not celebrating.. 8899 won't let any member get away without a celebration okie! haha... and if poly friends expect treat, is their own expectations, don't need to force yourself to comply one.. not govt set law say must treat... if really is friends should understand different ppl, has different preferences, I think their EQ should be higher than that..
lijun..dun tink so much ok?
if ur relatives dun wan, den dun celeb with them lo..i nv celeb w my relatives oso ma..
and den..about hs parents, maybe bcuz u're the 1st ger hs bring home (issit issit?), so his parents dunno how to treat u ba..take it slow lo..eventually the person marrying u is hs, not his parents rite =)))
i tink if u explain to ur poly frenz,they should b able to understand de..if not, then they r ppl who c $$ eye open..den u noe wat type of persons are they alr..
as for 8899, U DUN NID TO WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING!bcuz u wun noe anyhing..wahahahahahaha
cheer up ok?love u
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